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As a child develops, parents must recognize the need to unveil the
secrecy around sex. Children should feel comfortable with this topic
rather than feel that it’s taboo. “Discussing the pros and cons of sexual behavior, morally and health-wise, is imperative to a young preteen’s mind,” says Schulz. “This discussion is not giving the green light; it is giving your child the tools of morality and safe sex.”
Parents may still feel uncomfortable with discussing the topic.
“If parents have a lack of communication with their child, I strongly recommend to start the communication slowly,” says Schulz. “It is important, first, to simply get to know your child. Build her trust. Ask her, on a day-to-day basis, how she is doing, how school is, how their friends are, without any judgment.”
Kimberly Gomes is an intern for OC Family magazine.
'THE TALK'
Ready to talk about sex with your child? Here are a few suggestions:
> Be the first to give appropriate information.
> Never shame a child for his or her curiosity.
> Invite conversations about sex as often as possible.
> Just because they’re not asking doesn’t mean they aren’t curious.
> Have both parents equally involved in the discussion.
Helpful reading material for beginners
> “Amazing You: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts,” by Gail Salz
> “Your Body Belongs to You,” by Cornelia Maude Spelman
> “My Body is Private,” by Linda Walvoord Girard
Source: Karen Child Ogden, MFT
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