> Plan on giving her plenty of one-on-one time with Daddy. Your toddler still needs parental attention, especially if the age difference between the two is small.
> Stagger the timing of major changes. Timing
is everything, but it’s important not to overwhelm your toddler. When
planning the nursery or having a baby shower, make changes to the home
gradually, throughout the pregnancy, so your toddler can adapt a little
at a time. This lets her know she isn’t being replaced.
> Buy a few special toys. Make
your toddler feel extra special at this transitional time. Your newborn
is being celebrated, but that doesn’t mean your toddler should feel
left out.
> Show the benefits of being a big kid. Introduce
your toddler to activities that are separate from the new baby. This
will let her know she has a new role filled with different things that
her new sibling can’t do yet.